Okay, so, the other day I was feeling kinda stuck in my relationship. Like, things were good, but… were they growing? You know? So I grabbed my tarot deck, did a little shuffling, and focused on getting some clarity. The card I pulled? The Three of Wands. And honestly, it hit me pretty hard.
My Three of Wands Deep Dive
At first, I was like, “Okay, wands, fire, passion… what’s the deal?” I’ve been using tarot for a while, but I still like to look things up, just to make sure I’m getting the full picture. I saw some stuff online about the Three of Wands being about expansion and growth, and that’s when it really clicked.
I started thinking about my relationship. We’re comfortable, we have fun, but are we really pushing each other to be better? Are we evolving, or just kinda… coasting? The Three of Wands felt like a nudge, a little reminder that love shouldn’t be static. It’s not a “set it and forget it” kinda thing.
Putting it into Action
So, I decided to do something about it. I sat down with my partner and we had a real, honest conversation. No blaming, no pressure, just… talking. I told him how I was feeling, about wanting us to grow together, to support each other’s goals, and to keep that spark alive.
- I initiated a discussion about our individual aspirations. What did we each want to achieve in the next year, personally and professionally?
- We brainstormed ways we could actively support each other. Maybe it was taking a class together, or just setting aside dedicated time to check in on each other’s progress.
- We also talked about keeping the romance alive. Date nights, trying new things, making sure we weren’t just roommates, but partners.
It was a little awkward at first, but it ended up being amazing. We both felt heard, understood, and excited about the future. The Three of Wands wasn’t just a card; it was a catalyst. It helped me realize that love is a journey, not a destination, and that we need to actively participate in its growth. We’re still working on it, of course, it’s a process! But I feel so much more connected and optimistic about where we’re headed.
