Okay, so I’ve been getting really into tarot lately, and I decided to do a love reading for myself today. I was feeling a bit, you know, curious about what’s going on in that department. And guess what card popped up front and center? The Tower. Yeah, not exactly what you want to see when you’re asking about romance, right?
First, I shuffled my deck, like, a lot. I wanted to make sure it was good and ready. I even did that thing where you knock on the deck to clear out any lingering energy. Superstitious? Maybe. But hey, it’s part of the ritual!
Then, I laid out the cards in a simple three-card spread – past, present, and future. I flipped over the first card, no big deal, it was something about past relationships. Then came the present… BAM! The Tower. My heart kind of sank, I’m not gonna lie.

I stared at the card for a good five minutes. You know, the one with the lightning striking the tower, people falling… the whole dramatic scene. I was thinking, “Seriously? Is my love life about to completely collapse?”
My Deep Dive into The Tower
- I grabbed my favorite tarot guidebook and started reading. It talked about sudden change, upheaval, chaos… all that fun stuff.
- But then I dug a little deeper. I started looking online, reading different interpretations. And I realized it’s not always a bad thing.
- Some interpretations talked about The Tower representing the breakdown of false beliefs or structures. Like, maybe I’ve been holding onto ideas about love that aren’t serving me.
- Or maybe it means a relationship I’m in needs to change drastically, to be shaken up, to get to a better place.
The future card was actually pretty positive, which was a relief. So, after all that, I’m not totally freaking out. I’m taking The Tower as a sign that some big changes are coming, and even though they might be scary, they could ultimately lead to something better. It is all about how I react. I decided to use this to inspect all my relationships with open eyes, not fear.
I’m still processing it all, to be honest. But I’m choosing to see this as an opportunity for growth. Maybe a wake-up call to shake things up and get real about what I want in a relationship. Who knows, maybe this “Tower moment” is exactly what I need!