Okay, so today I tried out this thing called a “5 card tarot spread” for love. I’ve been feeling a bit blah about my love life lately, so I thought, why not? Let’s see what the cards have to say!
First, I found a quiet spot in my house. You know, somewhere I wouldn’t be disturbed. I lit a candle, because, atmosphere, right? And I grabbed my tarot deck. I shuffled the cards for a good while, really trying to focus on my question, which was basically, “What’s up with my love life, and where is it heading?”
Then, I dealt out five cards in a row, face down. According to the guide I was following, here’s what each position represents:

- Card 1: Me, my current situation in love.
- Card 2: My desires, what I really want.
- Card 3: Obstacles, what’s blocking me.
- Card 4: Advice, what I should do.
- Card 5: Outcome, where things are likely headed.
The Big Reveal
I flipped over the first card… and honestly, it felt pretty accurate. It showed a figure that looked content but kinda isolated, that’s me. It suggested a comfort in being alone, which is true, but maybe to a fault.
The second card, my desires, was all about partnership and connection. No surprises there! I do crave a deep, meaningful relationship. Seeing it in a card just confirmed what I already knew.
Card three, the obstacle, that was a bit trickier. It was a card that represented, to me, holding on to old habits and fears. Old me, being scared of the past relationships.
The advice card, number four, told me to open my mind and embrace change. Which, okay, is easier said than done, but it resonated. It’s like the cards were saying, “Girl, get out of your own way!”
And finally, the outcome card. This one was hopeful! It wasn’t a guarantee of instant romance, but it suggested growth and the potential for a fulfilling relationship down the line, if I followed the advice from the previous card.
My Takeaway
So, did this tarot reading magically solve all my love life problems? Nope. But did it give me some food for thought? For sure. It helped me to clearly see the current status, and the future direction, I have to change something if I want to acheive my love desire. I’m not saying I’m suddenly a tarot expert, but it was a fun and surprisingly insightful experience. I might just do this again sometime!