Okay, so I’ve been diving deep into tarot lately, and the “Queen of Cups” card has really been sticking with me. I wanted to see if I could embody some of her qualities in my day-to-day life, you know, like really become her for a bit. So, here’s what I did.
Getting into the Mindset
First, I spent some time just looking at the card. Really stared at it. The Queen of Cups, she’s all calm and serene, sitting on her throne by the water. She’s holding that cup, which is all about emotions and intuition. I figured I needed to tap into that vibe.
My Little Experiment
- Started with meditation: Each morning, I sat down for like 10 minutes, just focusing on my breath and trying to clear my head. I even pictured myself by the ocean, like the Queen. It was pretty chill, actually.
- Listened more: I made a conscious effort to really listen to people – my friends, my family, even strangers. Not just hearing the words, but actually trying to understand their feelings. It’s harder than it sounds!
- Trusted my gut: This was a big one. Instead of overthinking everything, I tried to go with my first instinct. Like, if I felt like calling a friend, I just did it, instead of wondering if I was bothering them.
- Got creative: The Queen of Cups is also linked to creativity, so I dusted off my old sketchbook and started doodling again. Nothing fancy, just letting my imagination flow. I used to get some color pencils and watercolors to make some changes.
- Showed compassion: I actively looked for ways to be kinder and more understanding. Helped an elderly neighbor carry her groceries, offered a friend a shoulder to cry on – little things like that.
What I Learned
Honestly, it was a pretty cool experience. I definitely felt more connected to my emotions, and I think I was a bit more empathetic towards others. It wasn’t like a magic switch flipped, but I could feel a shift. It reminded me that we all have these different aspects within us, and it’s kind of fun to explore them. I won’t say I AM perfectly like the Queen, but those tries just made me feel better.
Might try being the “King of Swords” next – gotta work on that logical side, haha!
