Today, I’m gonna share my little adventure with the “10 of Wands” card, but in the context of relationships. You know, it’s been a bumpy ride, and I’ve learned a ton along the way. So, let me spill the beans on what went down.
So, I pulled this 10 of Wands card during a tarot reading. At first, I was like, “What the heck does this mean?” I held it in my hands and just stared at it, trying to figure out what my love life was throwing at me. I even closed my eyes and tried to picture all the heavy stuff in my relationship as those ten heavy sticks the guy in the picture’s carrying. Sounds weird, I know, but it kinda helped.
- First off, this card just screamed “stress” and “responsibility” to me. I realized I was carrying way too much on my shoulders in my relationship. It was like I was doing all the heavy lifting, and it was exhausting. I asked Archangel Michael to help me figure out these burdens, hope this makes sense to you guys.
- Then, it hit me that my partner probably likes me a lot, but there’s this emotional wall that needs to come down. I started to see that we both had our own baggage, and it was weighing us down big time.
This whole thing made me think about how much pressure we put on ourselves in relationships. We try to be everything for our partners, and it’s just too much. I decided it was time to lighten the load. I started by talking to my partner about how I was feeling. It wasn’t easy, but it was necessary.
We began to share the responsibilities more evenly. It wasn’t just me doing everything anymore. We started to work as a team, and it made a huge difference. It felt like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders, and I could finally breathe again.
I also learned that it’s okay to ask for help. We don’t have to do everything ourselves. We have people in our lives who care about us and want to support us. It’s all about finding that balance and not trying to be a superhero all the time. And I had a deep talk with my partner. It felt like a huge relief to finally be on the same page.
What I Realized
In the end, the 10 of Wands taught me that relationships are hard work, but they don’t have to be a constant struggle. It’s about finding that balance, sharing the load, and being there for each other through thick and thin. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being real and showing up for each other every day. And I confirmed that the upright 10 of Wands is a “no.” I was overwhelmed, so taking on more physical things will make me even more exhausted.
I hope my little story helps someone out there who’s feeling overwhelmed in their relationship. Remember, you’re not alone, and it’s okay to ask for help. It is all about finding that balance and not trying to be a superhero all the time.
