Alright, let’s talk about this “10 of Wands” thing and how it might tell you what someone’s feeling about you. So, I was messing around with my tarot deck the other day, just kind of curious about a situation with this person I know. You know how it is when you’re trying to figure out where you stand with someone?
I pulled out the 10 of Wands, and at first, I was like, “What the heck does this even mean?” I mean, it’s a dude carrying a bunch of sticks, looking all tired and burdened. Not exactly the romantic image you’d hope for, right?
So, I started digging around, trying to understand what this card was trying to tell me. It turns out the 10 of Wands is all about feeling overwhelmed, burdened, and just carrying a lot of responsibility. It’s like when you have a million things on your to-do list, and you’re just struggling to keep up.
Now, here’s the tricky part. Tarot is usually better at telling you about yourself than about other people. So, when you’re asking about someone else’s feelings, it’s more like getting a general vibe rather than a detailed breakdown. So I kept pulling cards, hoping for some clarification.
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The Process:
- Shuffled the deck while thinking about the person and how they might feel about me.
- Pulled the 10 of Wands. Felt confused.
- Googled the meaning of the card. Learned about burdens and responsibilities.
- Reflected on the person’s current situation. Are they stressed? Busy?
- Considered that their feelings might be clouded by their own stuff.
- Pulled more cards for context. Got some other cards, but they didn’t make it much clearer.
- Realized I need to communicate directly with the person instead of relying solely on the cards.
When it comes to the 10 of Wands and someone’s feelings for you, it could mean a few things. Maybe they’re just super busy and stressed out right now, and their feelings for you are kind of buried under all that. Or maybe they see a relationship with you as another responsibility they’d have to take on, and they’re not sure they can handle it. It could also mean that they do have feelings for you, but they’re feeling the weight of those feelings. Like, maybe they’re scared of getting hurt or messing things up, so they’re carrying that burden around. Or maybe they are just overwhelmed by the intensity of their own feelings, making them unable to communicate them effectively. When I tried to understand what this might mean in my own case, it really just emphasized that I would not get a clear picture of what was going on without actually talking to them.
It’s also possible that the 10 of Wands is telling you more about yourself. Like, maybe you’re the one who’s feeling overwhelmed by the situation, or maybe you’re putting too much pressure on the person or the potential relationship. Ultimately, this is what I decided the cards were pointing to for me: I was placing far too much emphasis on this potential relationship with the other person when I should be focusing on myself.
In any case, the 10 of Wands is a reminder that sometimes people have a lot going on, and it can affect how they feel about you or how they show it. It doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t care about you, but it might mean they’re just struggling to deal with everything right now. It is a soft or conditional “no” in a “yes or no” reading, but only because the person in question is already overwhelmed, so taking on more physical, emotional, or professional responsibilities would likely just make the problem worse.
So, what did I learn from this whole tarot experiment? Well, it didn’t give me a clear-cut answer about this person’s feelings, but it did make me think about things from a different perspective. And it reminded me that sometimes the best way to figure things out is to just talk to the person directly. Tarot can be fun and insightful, but it’s not a substitute for real communication. That was the case for me, at least, as after talking to them directly, I found out that they were actually feeling overwhelmed by their feelings for me!
