Alright, so the other day, I was trying to figure out what my ex was feeling about me. It’s a messy situation, you know? Mixed signals all over the place. One day it seemed like they were totally over it, and the next, it felt like there was still something there. I couldn’t make heads or tails of it.
I decided to use tarot cards, something I do from time to time when I need some guidance. I’m no expert, but it helps me think things through. I focused on my ex and what they might be feeling, and then I pulled out the Four of Cups.
Now, I’m not a pro at interpreting these cards, but from what I’ve gathered, the Four of Cups is all about feeling kinda meh. Like, you’re not really happy, not really sad, just… there. It suggests boredom, disinterest, and maybe even a bit of self-absorption.

At first, I was a bit bummed out. I thought, “Great, they’re probably feeling nothing at all.” But then I did some more digging. I read a bunch of stuff online about this card, especially in the context of an ex’s feelings. Some interpretations suggested that the Four of Cups could mean someone is feeling neglected or unimportant. Like they feel you’re too busy with other stuff to really pay attention to them.
Mixed Signals and Inner Conflicts
- I started thinking about all those mixed signals I was getting. Maybe it wasn’t that they were feeling nothing, but rather that they were feeling conflicted.
- I read that mixed signals can mean someone’s not ready to go all in, but it can also mean they have an avoidant attachment style. Basically, they get uncomfortable with closeness and intimacy.
- Maybe my ex was pushing me away because they were scared of getting too close. Or maybe they were just genuinely confused about what they wanted.
- I realized that it could be a sign of an inner conflict, like wanting freedom and security at the same time. It’s a real head-scratcher.
After going through all of this, I decided the best approach was just to be direct. I sent them a message, saying something like, “Hey, I’m getting some mixed signals here, and it’s confusing me. Can we just be straight with each other?” It wasn’t easy, but I felt like it was the only way to get some clarity.
It’s still a work in progress, and I’m not sure where it’ll all end up. But at least now I feel like I’m starting to understand what might be going on. It’s not just about the cards, but also about understanding people’s behavior and their own internal struggles. Using the tarot helped me to think all of this through. If you are ever in this kind of situation, I would recommend you to try it out yourself, it might bring you some clarity.