5 of Cups as Action A Guide to Making the Best Choices

5 of Cups as Action A Guide to Making the Best Choices

Alright, today I’m gonna talk about the 5 of Cups and how I used it as a guide for my actions. So, a while back, I was feeling kinda down, you know, like I was stuck in this rut of regret and disappointment. It’s like, I kept focusing on all the stuff that went wrong, the opportunities I missed, and it was just dragging me down. Then, I pulled out my tarot deck, just for a bit of fun and reflection, and guess what card I got? The 5 of Cups.

At first, I was like, “Oh great, this is just what I need, more negativity.” But then I started really looking at the card. It’s this picture of a figure all cloaked up, looking sad, and there are three cups knocked over in front of him. But get this – there are still two cups standing upright behind him. It hit me then, this card isn’t just about sorrow, it’s about perspective.

So, I decided to take this as a sign. I made a conscious effort to shift my focus. Instead of dwelling on what I had lost, I started to pay attention to what I still had. It was tough at first, my mind kept wandering back to those “spilled cups,” but I kept at it. I started making a list of things I was grateful for, big and small. My family, my health, a sunny day, even just a good cup of coffee.

5 of Cups as Action A Guide to Making the Best Choices

Then I thought about those two standing cups. What opportunities were still there, right in front of me, that I was too blind to see? I started saying “yes” to things I would normally shy away from. I joined a local hiking group, signed up for an online course in something I was always curious about, and even reconnected with some old friends. Baby steps, you know?

It wasn’t all smooth sailing. There were days when I felt like I was back to square one, staring at those spilled cups again. But I kept reminding myself of the lesson. I learned to forgive myself for past mistakes and accept that things don’t always go as planned. I realized it’s okay to grieve for what’s lost, but it’s also important to move on.

Slowly but surely, things started to change. I felt lighter, more hopeful. I was finding joy in the little things and embracing new experiences. It’s like, by acknowledging my sadness but not letting it define me, I was able to open myself up to new possibilities.

Here’s a quick rundown of what I did:

  • Shifted my focus from losses to what I still had.
  • Made gratitude lists to appreciate the good things in my life.
  • Looked for new opportunities symbolized by the two standing cups.
  • Said “yes” to new experiences and stepped out of my comfort zone.
  • Practiced self-forgiveness and acceptance.

My conclusion

So, that’s my story of how the 5 of Cups became a guide for action in my life. It’s not just some card in a deck; it’s a reminder that even in our darkest moments, there’s still hope, still something to be grateful for. It taught me that it’s okay to feel sad, but it’s important not to let that sadness consume you. There are always those two cups standing, waiting to be filled with new experiences and joys. You just gotta turn around and see * I keep my chin up!

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