Okay, so, I did this sexuality tarot reading thing the other day, and I figured I’d just share how it went down.
First off, I got myself all set up. I mean, I grabbed my tarot deck, the one I always use, and made sure I was in a quiet spot. No distractions, you know? Just me and the cards. I lit up a candle, not gonna lie, I like the vibe it gives, makes the room feel, I don’t know, more special?
Then, I took a few deep breaths. Closed my eyes, tried to clear my head. It’s important to be, like, in the right headspace for this kind of stuff. You want to be open to whatever the cards might say, right? I shuffled the deck, thinking about my intentions. I was curious about my sexuality, wanted to see if the cards could offer some insights, maybe show me something I hadn’t considered before. It’s all about exploring, you know?

I laid out the cards in a simple spread. Nothing too fancy, just three cards in a row. The first card was supposed to represent my past experiences, the things that have shaped my sexuality up to this point. I got The Empress. It’s all about abundance, nurturing, and sensuality. It made sense to me, thinking about past relationships and how they’ve influenced me.
- The second card, that was about my present situation.
- What’s going on with me right now in terms of my sexuality.
- And, I pulled The Tower. Yeah, that one.
It can be a bit of a shocker, representing sudden change, upheaval, even destruction. But, you know, I think it’s about breaking down old structures, challenging what you thought you knew. I sat with that for a while. I thought about where I am now, how I’m feeling about my sexuality, and it really resonated. Things are definitely changing for me, and it’s not always easy, but it feels necessary.
Finally, the third card was all about the future. Where things might be headed, what I might learn or discover about myself down the road. I can’t recall what I got, but at that moment it represented hope, inspiration, and guidance. It felt like a positive sign, suggesting that this journey of exploration will lead to something good, even if it’s a bit unclear right now.
My Thoughts
Honestly, the whole thing was pretty eye-opening. It wasn’t like the cards gave me all the answers or told me exactly who I am or what I should do. But they gave me a lot to think about. It is like the deck as a mirror, reflecting back my own thoughts and feelings in a new way. They helped me see things from a different perspective, to acknowledge some things I might have been avoiding or hadn’t fully processed yet.
I wrote down my thoughts and feelings after the reading, just to have a record of it. It is kind of like a diary entry, a snapshot of where I was at that moment. I think I’ll keep doing these readings, maybe once a month or so, just to check in with myself and see how things are evolving. It’s a cool way to stay connected to my inner self and keep exploring this aspect of who I am.
And that’s about it. It is not that complicated, but it is a journey. It’s all about taking the time to reflect, to be honest with yourself, and to be open to whatever comes up. You can make it as simple or as deep as you want. It’s your journey, your exploration.