Alright, let’s talk about this Nine of Wands card, you know, the one with the fella lookin’ all beat up but still holdin’ on tight to his stick. It’s a card about feelin’s, and let me tell ya, it ain’t always sunshine and roses.
What’s this Nine of Wands all about then?
Well, it’s like this, you been through somethin’, somethin’ tough. Maybe a fight, maybe a long journey, maybe just life beatin’ ya down. You’re tired, you’re worn out, and you’re feelin’ like you just can’t take another step. But guess what? You ain’t done yet. You’re almost there, just gotta keep pushin’ a little bit more.
Think of it like plantin’ a garden. You dug the dirt, you planted the seeds, you watered them every day. Now the weeds are comin’ up, the bugs are eatin’ your plants, and you’re just plumb tuckered out. But you gotta keep goin’, gotta pull those weeds, gotta get rid of them bugs, or you ain’t gonna get no vegetables. That’s the Nine of Wands, see? It’s about stickin’ with it even when you’re feelin’ like you’d rather just lay down and give up.
Nine of Wands in Love, what’s that mean?
- Feelin’ guarded: Maybe you been hurt before, so you’re puttin’ up walls, afraid to let anyone get too close. You’re protectin’ your heart, like that fella in the card protectin’ himself with his stick.
- Tired of fightin’: Maybe you and your partner been arguin’ a lot, and you’re just plain worn out. You’re not sure if you got the strength to keep fightin’ for the relationship.
- Almost there: Maybe you’ve been workin’ hard on your relationship, tryin’ to build somethin’ strong and lastin’. You’ve faced some challenges, but you’re almost through it. Just gotta hang in there a little longer.
This card ain’t sayin’ it’s gonna be easy, mind you. It’s sayin’ it’s gonna be tough, but you’re tougher. You got the strength inside you to make it through. You just gotta find it.
So, what do you do when you see this card?
First off, you gotta acknowledge your feelin’s. Don’t try to pretend you ain’t tired or hurt or scared. Let yourself feel it. Then, you gotta take a deep breath and remember why you started in the first place. What are you fightin’ for? What’s worth all this effort? Once you remember that, you can find the strength to keep goin’.
And don’t be afraid to ask for help. You ain’t gotta do this alone. Reach out to your friends, your family, your partner. Let them know you’re struggling. They might be able to offer you some support, some encouragement, some strength to keep you goin’.
Now, this card ain’t all doom and gloom, though. It’s also a card of hope. It’s a reminder that you’re stronger than you think you are. You’ve been through a lot, and you’re still standing. That’s somethin’ to be proud of. And it’s a promise that if you just keep pushin’, you’ll eventually get to where you wanna be. You just need a little more patience, a little more perseverance, and a whole lotta grit.
And remember, talkin’ is important. If somethin’ happened in the past that’s botherin’ you, you gotta talk about it. Can’t just keep it bottled up inside, that ain’t healthy. Gotta open up, be honest with yourself and the folks you care about. That’s how you build stronger connections, stronger relationships.
This card is all about buildin’ that strength and keepin’ your guard up when you need to, but also knowin’ when to let your guard down and trust others. It’s a tricky balance, life is. But you’re tougher than you think, I tell ya. Just like that fella holdin’ that stick, you can handle whatever life throws your way. You just gotta believe in yourself, and keep on keepin’ on.
One last thing. When you see this Nine of Wands, it means it is time to look after yourself. You have put so much energy into whatever is going on, you need to take time to recharge. You can’t pour from an empty cup, so do what you need to do to rest up and rebuild your strength.
So, there you have it. The Nine of Wands, in a nutshell. It’s about perseverance, resilience, and the strength to keep going even when you’re feelin’ beat down. It ain’t easy, but it’s worth it.
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